Carnival Cruise Lines Contest Looking For a Child Ages 7 to 12
Cruises are becoming more and more popular with families and as a great way to reconnect with family members that may be scattered across the country
with inter-generational vacations. Of course this includes families that include special needs kids. Carnival Cruise Lines is fully equipped to make guests with special requirements and disabilities relaxing and enjoyable. Carnival Corporation was recently awarded the “Access Freedom” award, which is presented by the Society for Accessible Travel and Hospitality and is given to individuals and organizations that have made the greatest strides in advancing opportunities for persons with disabilities.
Now Carnival Cruise Lines is gearing up to debut a brand new ship, The Carnival Dream. The new ship comes complete with an outdoor theater, a 24-hour pizza place and its own on-board water park.
To christen the ship on its maiden voyage, Carnival is going to choose a godchild for the water park, WaterWorks, in the Book of Dreams Contest. The lucky child and family will get a trip to New York to embark on a 3-night voyage. Plus, for every entry into the contest Carnival will donate $2 to St Jude’s Children’s Hospital. Carnival will also donate $1 for every vote in the contest. Entry details are here
For more info: Carnival Dream Fact Sheet
Carnival Special Requirements Info Sheet
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Pediatric Safety Addition:
Rules of Contest from Carnival Cruise Website are located here.
Of key importance – entry must be submitted between August 18, 2009 12:00:01 a.m. EST and no later than September 18, 2009, 11:59:59 p.m. EST on the Sponsor’s website located at www.bigbookofdreams.com, to be entered into the Virtual Book of Dreams Contest.
Don’t let A Predator Make Your Child a Victim
As Parents we want to protect our children from all harm and evil! We can’t! But we can be informed and keep our children savvy and enlightened!
There are predators out there and our children are their targets. What I’m going to talk about will shock and horrify you. It will make the hair on the back of your neck stand on end. Some of you might even want to stop reading here because this is the subject of horror movies and nightmares. This is something most of us would rather die than imagine happen to our children. But I implore you to continue, this is too important to ignore.
As a medical professional, I have seen firsthand the toll something like this can take on a child. The effects are devastating and life long. The incidence of crimes against children is on the rise. I’m sorry to have to tell you that unfortunately the times we live in are too dangerous to turn a blind eye.
I have some staggering statistics that are probably going to make you sick. I also have some tools to EMPOWER YOU and your CHILDREN! You do not need to be a helpless victim!
According to family watchdog an online Sex Offender Registry
- 1 of 5 girls and 1 of 6 boys will be molested before their 18th birthday.
- 90% of all sexual assaults against children are committed by someone whom the victim knew.
- The typical sexual predator will assault 117 times before being caught.
- The re-arrest rate for convicted child molesters is 52%.
- That your child will become a victim of a sex offender is 1 in 3 for girls & 1 in 6 for boys. **Source: The National Center for Victims of Crime
- Over 2,000 children are reported missing every day.
Background on Registered Sex Offender Laws:
The U.S. Congress has passed several laws that require states to monitor registered sex offenders; the Jacob Wetterling Crimes against Children Act, the Pam Lychner Sex Offender tracking and Identification Act and Megan’s Law.
On March 5, 2003, The Supreme Court ruled that information about registered sex offenders may be posted on the Internet. Good for us!
Let’s take advantage of these laws!!! This is Not about Vigilantism! This is about being INFORMED! This is about KNOWING where REGISTERED SEX OFFENDERS in YOUR AREA LIVE and WORK!!
Here are some excellent places to start:
- National Sex Offender Public Website where you can search by name
- National Alert Registry
- Search for Sex Offenders in your area if there are offenders in your area there is a key to show you where they work and where they live. You can click on these boxes and a picture of the offender will pop up.
- iTouch also has 2 great applications! 1 is free. It allows you to download 3 free searches of Registered Sex offenders in your Area. For a Small one time fee you can download the full program which lets you search whatever zip code you want! This would be very useful while traveling!
- The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children “NCMEC” is a WEALTH of information!! As the nation’s resource center for protecting children they have NUMEROUS free online downloadable publications that EVERY parent needs to take advantage of! Their prevention and safety education programs and materials contain information and tips that will help you keep your children safer. I suggest you go to this site at your leisure and READ READ READ!! It could very well save you some heartache!
For decades, children were taught to stay away from “strangers.” But this concept is difficult for children to grasp and often the perpetrator is someone the child knows. It is more beneficial to help build Children’s confidence and teach them to respond to a potentially dangerous situation, rather than teaching them to look out for a particular type of person.
Here are some tips to help you take some first steps to help them avoid becoming a victim:
- Make sure you know where each of your children is at all times. Know your children’s friends and be clear with your children about the places and homes they may visit. Make it a rule for your children to check-in with you when they arrive at or depart from a particular location and when there is a change in plans. You should also let them know when
you’re running late or if your plans have changed to show the rule is for safety purposes and not being used to “check up” on them. - Never leave children unattended in a vehicle, whether it is running or not. Children should never be left unsupervised or allowed to spend time alone or with others in vehicles as the potential dangers to their safety outweigh any perceived convenience or “fun.” Remind children to never hitchhike, approach a vehicle, or engage in a conversation with anyone within a vehicle they do not know and trust. Also they should never go anywhere with anyone without first getting your permission.
- Be involved in your children’s activities. As an active participant you’ll have a better opportunity to observe how the adults in charge interact with your children. If you are concerned about anyone’s behavior, take it up with the sponsoring organization.
- Listen to your children. Pay attention if they tell you they don’t want to be with someone or go somewhere. This may be an indication of more than a personality conflict or lack of interest in the activity or event.
- Notice when anyone shows one or all of your children a great deal of attention or begins giving them gifts. Take the time to talk to your children about the person and find out why that person is acting in this way.
- Teach your children they have the right to say NO to any unwelcome, uncomfortable, or confusing touch or actions by others and get out of those situations as quickly as possible. If avoidance is not an option, children should be taught to kick, scream, and resist. When in such a situation, teach them to loudly yell, “This person is not my father/mother/guardian,” and then immediately tell you if this happens. Reassure them you’re there to help and it is okay to tell you anything.
- Be sensitive to any changes in your children’s behavior or attitude. Encourage open communication and learn how to be an active listener. Look and listen to small cues and clues indicating something may be troubling your children, because children are not always comfortable disclosing disturbing events or feelings. This may be because they are concerned about your reaction to their problems. If your children do confide problems to you, strive to remain calm, reassuring, and nonjudgmental. Listen compassionately to their concern, and work with them to get the help they need to resolve the problem.
- Be sure to screen babysitters and caregivers. Many jurisdictions now have a public registry allowing parents and guardians to check out individuals for prior criminal records and sex offenses. Check references with other families who have used the caregiver or babysitter. Once you have chosen the caregiver, drop in unexpectedly to see how your children are doing. Ask your children how the experience with the caregiver was, and carefully listen to the responses.
- Practice basic safety skills with your children. Make an outing to a mall or park a “teachable” experience in which your children practice checking with you, using pay telephones, going to the restroom with a friend, and locating the adults who may be able to help if they need assistance. Remember, allowing your children to wear clothing or carry items in public on which their name is displayed may bring about unwelcome attention from inappropriate people looking for a way to start a conversation with your children.
- Remember there is no substitute for your attention and supervision. Being available and taking time to really know and listen to your children helps build feelings of safety and security. 1
In conclusion, YOU HAVE A RIGHT to keep your children safe!
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- Check the registry by location for sex offenders located near Daycare centers, Schools, Camps, Church or anyplace you may be leaving your children, even Grandma and Grandpa’s house.
- Check the registry by name for Church Officials, Teachers, Neighbors, Counselors, Private instruction Tutors, Bus Drivers, after school Activities leaders, Coaches etc.
- Check them often. Take nothing for granted. Everyone is suspect.
- Consult NCMEC’s prevention and safety education programs and materials for additional steps you and your children can take to help them feel empowered, and to know what they can do if they find themselves in a situation where they feel scared or compromised.
- Finally, observe and listen; and TEACH CHILDREN to recognize and respond to anything that scares them. Children are very perceptive by nature. You are not ruining their childhood by talking to them when they are young. You may just be saving it!
Sex offenders place themselves in situations where children are! They make themselves appeal to children. This is NO Accident! Be SAVVY. We have the tools to fight these predators! LET’S USE THEM!
Leslie Mayorga R.N. BSN
Miley Cyrus & Pediatric Safety: A winning ticket!
We finally did it!
After countless hours of planning and testing and developing – we finally think we’ve put together a site where everyone who cares about children’s health and safety – (parents and doctors and nurses and emergency responders and teachers…to name a few) – can get together to stay informed on the child health safety topics that have the potential to affect us and the children in our care.
A place where we can show each other some of the ideas that we as caregivers had, and then later turned into products and services that help keep kids healthier and safer; and a forum where we’ve been fortunate to have some experts (pediatricians, pediatric nurses, an EMS safety expert, and a specialist in keeping home & kids toxic chemical-free) who have kindly volunteered time to help out with an open exchange of questions and ideas.
It’s a place where hopefully each of you can find answers and in turn give answers to others who need them. It’s a community where people can support each other… and it’s yours.
So where does this contest thing come in??? Well how do you get to know a new place unless you explore??? And we WANT you to get to know this one – and tell others about it. …And THAT’s where this contest thing comes in :)
Introducing: Miley Cyrus & Pediatric Safety: A winning ticket!
**contest extended two more weeks**:
The prize: as a way of thanking our new friends…
- For one lucky winner: Two (2) tickets to see Miley Cyrus in concert on November 18th at Nassau Coliseum in New York
- For another lucky winner: Two (2) tickets to see Miley Cyrus in concert on November 29th at Philips Arena in Atlanta, GA
And here’s how it works:
Below you will find our CONTEST ENTRY FORM. It includes our MANDATORY entry for the contest as well as the opportunity for you to enter a BONUS entry…
For simplicity (and so that you can tweet multiple times) you can use this form for each bonus entry, however if this is an additional entry, please check the box saying this an additional entry so we know you have already completed your mandatory entry requirement. Please note: you must fill out a separate form for the mandatory entry as well as for each bonus entry so we can make sure each entry gets counted.
Starting next Friday, and for each Friday after that we will post opportunities for you to earn additional BONUS entries. Each bonus entry will be listed for that 1 week and will only be good for that week. So be sure to check back each week for the bonus entries …and have fun!
For your MANDATORY ENTRY – YOU MUST DO THIS TO ENTER THE CONTEST:
For your BONUS ENTRIES FOR WEEKS 5 & 6:
- Tweet the following “Hannah Montana / @MileyCyrus Concert tix Giveaway! Visit http://ow.ly/jS82 for details & plz RT @pediatricsafety #pedsafe” (You may tweet once daily = 1 entry)
- Share this contest on your favorite social networking site ” Click share at the bottom of the post and provide the URL where you shared it on the form (Each share = 1 entry)
- Name and describe one post from the home page of the site Answer on the form below (Answer = 2 entries, so remember to submit 2 forms)
- Blog about this contest – including a request for your readers to tweet or blog about it. ” Include the blog URL on the form (Blogging = 2 entries, so remember to submit 2 forms)
- Join the ANSR for Kids (Ambulances Need Safety Regulations) cause on Facebook and send invites to your friends – help us spread the word that things have got to change http://apps.facebook.com/causes/299331?m=3f1cca43 (Join the cause = 3 entries, so remember to submit 3 forms)
- Sign the ANSR for Kids petition and leave a comment - help us tell Congress that Ambulances Need Safety Regulations for Kids http://www.rallycongress.com/pediatric-safety/2168/ansr-kids-ambulances-need-safety-regulations/ (Signing the petition = 3 entries, so remember to submit 3 forms)
Please note: Each contest (Atlanta and New York) requires a minimum of 20 valid participants for tickets to be awarded - see details in contest rules below
**CONGRATULATIONS TO OUR 2 WINNERS **

Our Atlanta Winner: for Miley Cyrus tickets at Philips Arena - Kimberly Sloane #16 – with a Mandatory Entry
Our NY Winner: for a $50 gift certificate to Amazon.com – Dora Gouli - #152 – with an Additional Entry: Signed the Petition (Child safety should be taken very seriously and hopefully this petition on more secure transportation features for ambulances does not get ignored)
Finally…Contest Rules:
Welcome to the summer of Miley, the summer of kids and the summer of Pediatric Safety.
We hope you find a home at our new community, and that you believe like we do: we’re in this together…and where
kids health and safety are concerned… ONE OUCH IS DEFINITELY TOO MANY!!
“Best of” Back-to-School Health and Safety Tips 2009: Part II
If you are a parent or someone who takes care of kids in any way, shape or form (which I’m guessing you are if you’re reading this) there are three words that have dominated your world for the past couple of weeks: “back to school”. It is likely that you have not spent a day, opened a newspaper or a journal or gone
to the sites you typically visit on the internet and not seen these words staring back at you in an article telling you: “How can you best prepare your kids”, “The 101 things you should know before sending your kids back to school …” etc. Sometimes it seem like there are a million articles…by a million experts. Unfortunately, with so much information it can be a bit overwhelming at times, when all we really want is someone to give us the answer to the very basic question of “what should I do to handle this particular situation.”
So for those of you who didn’t read part I, I’ve gone through all my sources and created a “best of” health and safety tips across all the expert information I’ve found, in the hopes that it will save everyone a little time that they could be otherwise be using to get 5 more minutes (or 1 extra hug) in with their kids before they head off to school. (*Please note: as with yesterday, I am sourcing other author’s tips and will cite all references below – all copyrights, credit and thanks belong to them)
Heading to School:
Waiting for the Bus:
- Arrive at the stop at least five minutes before the bus arrives and stay out of the street while waiting for the bus to arrive
- Wait on the same side of the street as the school bus loading/unloading zone
- Look before stepping into the street to make sure there are no cars passing the bus
- Cross the street at least 10 feet (or 10 giant steps) in front of the bus to make sure drivers can see them. Drivers have a blind spot of 10 feet in front of the bus.
- Wait until the bus comes to a complete stop before exiting and exit from the front of the bus.
- Ask the bus driver for help if anything is dropped while entering or exiting the bus.
While on the bus:
- Remain seated, forward facing at all times and keep the aisles clear.
- Do not shout or distract the driver unnecessarily – this includes throwing things
- Keep heads and arms inside the bus at all times. Parents should also make sure that they remove loose drawstrings or ties on jackets and sweatshirts that can snag on bus handrails, and replace with Velcro, snaps or buttons.
Walking to school:
- It’s recommended that children under ten never cross the street alone – additionally:

- Choose the safest route and walk it with children.
- Instruct children to recognize and obey all traffic signals and markings.
- Make sure children look in all directions before crossing the street and teach them to never dart out into traffic.
- Direct children to not to enter the street from between parked cars or from behind bushes or shrubs – teach them to cross at a corner or crosswalk.
- Warn children to be extra alert in bad weather
- A bright colored jacket might make your child more visible to traffic.
- In neighborhoods with higher levels of traffic, consider starting a “walking school bus,” in which an adult accompanies a group of neighborhood children walking to school
Riding a bike to school:
- Always wear a bicycle helmet, no matter how short or long the ride.
- Know the “rules of the road”: Ride on the right, in the same direction as auto traffic, use appropriate hand signals and respect traffic lights and stop signs.
- Wear bright color clothing to increase visibility.
- Do not allow children to ride on the road without direct adult supervision until age ten.
Btw – Here’s a great brochure by the National Highway Transportation Safety Administration (NHTSA) that uses graphics and humor to teach little kids how to be safe on their way to school
During the School Day:
Eating during the day:
- Many schools regularly send schedules of cafeteria menus home. This gives you the option of packing lunch on the days when you, or your child, don’t like the meal served.
- Try to get your child’s school to stock healthy choices such as fresh fruit, low-fat dairy products, water and 100 percent fruit juice in the vending machines. Each 12-ounce soft drink contains approximately 10 teaspoons of sugar and 150 calories. Just one can of soda a day increases a child’s risk of obesity by 60%.
Bullying:
- Today, unfortunately bullying occurs in many different forms and can sometimes be difficult to
recognize. The American Academy of Pediatrics has detailed guidelines on managing bullying from the perspective of the child being bullied, the child who is the bully and the bystander. Across all 3 categories, what is consistent is involving a parent or another adult to develop a proactive solution. Rather than try and abbreviate this section, if this is an issue for your child, well documented and excellent guidelines can be sourced here
Keeping them safe at school:
- Ask your child about safety in his or her school. Where do they feel most safe? Least safe? Why?
- Identify comfort levels and methods for reporting safety concerns. Do students have at least one adult and/or method they would feel comfortable in reporting safety concerns to at school?
- Examine access to your school. Are there a reduced number of doors that can be accessed from the outside (while still allowing children to exit from the inside in an emergency)? Do faculty know who is in their school?
- Determine if your school has a school safety team, safety plan and ongoing process, as well as a school crisis team and school emergency/crisis preparedness guidelines. Are these plans and guidelines reviewed regularly – at least once a year? If so, do the students, school employees and parents know about them? Are they tested and exercised?
- Do school officials have meaningful, working relationships with police, fire and other public safety agencies serving their schools? Do they have direct input on school safety plans?
- Finally 5 excellent questions that your schools crisis mgmt team should know the answer to – if not, get involved (same author):
- How do you dial 9-1-1 from the school phones? Do you need to get an outside line first?
- What is the actual street address of the school if asked by a 9-1-1 dispatcher?
- If your schools nearby walking evacuation site is a community church, does someone have the keys to get in if no one from the church is there when you arrive?
- How long does it really take to mobilize your school bus drivers in the middle of the day if you need to evacuate multiple buildings (e.g. half the school +)?
- Have you ever trained students NOT to open doors to people on the outside trying to get into the school?
After School:
Getting home safe and staying that way :
- Make sure your child walks home with a group of friends or a responsible adult.
- Make sure to have an adult at the bus stop after school to make sure the kids get home safely.

- Make a code word that will be used when someone else they do not know will pick them up. Every time you have someone pick your child up from school they have to know your secret code word or you child will not get in the vehicle.
- Let them know that if an adult makes them feel uncomfortable or is following them have them call 911 and go back to school, to the police, or to a friend’s home as quick as possible. They need to find a safe place.
- If they are going to be alone in the afternoons, teach them to go straight home, keep doors locked and not answer the door for anyone.
- Finally, remind them never give out personal information to strangers or on the Internet.
So folks, I know it was a long list, but I hope it’s one you’ll find useful. Until next time keep them healthy, keep them safe…and remember we’ll keep doing our best to help you do both, because one ouch is definitely too many
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As we did yesterday, sending out thanks and recognition to some very smart folks for some really terrific advice:
- Waiting for the Bus, While on the bus, Walking to school and bullet # 4 of Riding a bike to school: (Parents Need to Talk to Children About Safety When Sending Them Back to School, Susan Laurence of Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center July 24, 2009)
- Riding a bike to school, Eating during the day, Bullying, and bullet # 8 of Walking to school: (Back to School Tips: American Academy of Pediatrics 2009)
- Keeping them safe at school: (Parents & School Safety – Can you Prevent Another Tragedy? How Safe is Your Child’s School: by Ken Trump president of National School Safety & Security Svces and 25+ years of school safety experience)
- Getting home safe and staying that way : (Children’s safety tips to remember for back to school: Melina Ann Collison, St Louis Crime Examiner, July 27, 2009)
- bullet # 5 of Getting home safe and staying that way : (ADT Safety Tips: Back-to-School Safety, Aug 10, 2009: Patrick Fiel, public safety advisor for ADT Security and former head of security for Washington DC Public Schools)
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“Best of” Back-to-School Health and Safety Tips 2009: Part I
It’s that time of year again…back to school. Some of our kids have already left, some are just heading out…and although we can send them off with a hug, typically there’s a little more we want to do to protect them and make
sure there are little to no “ouches” to care for when they arrive home. And our job isn’t easy, because unfortunately the hazards they face – bullying, gangs, drug sales, reckless drivers and predators, just to name a few – can happen before, during or after school. The best we can hope for is to make sure they are healthy before they walk out the door, ensure their trip to and from school is “uneventful”, and equip them with the tools, knowledge and resources to help them keep themselves safe and healthy until they are once again in our care.
To assist our efforts, experts provide us with articles and blog posts of “back to school” health guidelines and safety tips and do’s and don’ts lists, addressing all of these issues in many different forms. In fact there is a wealth of knowledge on the web on how to best prepare your child and send them off to school. Having sourced and searched, and read and compiled, what I would like to do here is save you a little time – which at this time of the year we all know is in incredibly precious – and share with you the best of what I found. (*Please note – I am sourcing other author’s tips and will cite all references below – all copyrights, credit and thanks belong to them)
Before School Begins:
Prep for pre-school physicals: 
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Bring your child’s immunization records. If you can’t locate those records, contact your school’s nurse for the most recent copy on file.
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Make a list of any questions you may have regarding your child’s physical, emotional or mental development.
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Encourage your child to be open and forthright with the doctor about any health-related issues
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Don’t wait until the last minute.
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Don’t confuse pre-participation sports physical exams with school physicals. Sports physicals are required in advance of every school year or sports season.
Consider a back-to-school health check list:
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Have your child’s hearing checked.
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Have their vision screened. Young children often don’t know they can’t see well enough for schoolwork
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Be sure immunizations are up to date.
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Investigate possible learning disabilities. If you suspect your child may not be processing information correctly, speak to a teacher or contact a learning center for advice.
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Inventory your child’s mental health. What’s your child’s behavior like? If your child seems anxious or unsteady, talk to your pediatrician or a counselor to help identify the source and a solution
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Plan ahead on prescriptions – especially if medications will need to be given at school
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Scan the scalp.
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Equip the athlete. If your child will participate in sports, be sure that he or she has all the protective equipment needed for the sport.
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Schedule a trip to the dentist. Address any sleep issues.
Conduct a backpack check:
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Buy a backpack with two wide, padded straps that go over the shoulders — and make sure your child uses both straps at all times.
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Your child’s backpack should not be wider than his body.
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Choose a backpack with a padded waist or chest belt. This distributes weight more evenly across the body. Multiple compartments also help distribute the weight.
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Consider a backpack with a metal frame (like hikers use) or on wheels (like a flight attendant’s bag). Check with your child’s school first to see if these types of bags are allowed.
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Make sure your child isn’t carrying unnecessary items. Laptops, CD players and video games can add a lot of pounds to a backpack.
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Heavier items should be placed closer to the back of the backpack, next to the body.
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Finally teach them to pick up their backpack like any heavy object - bend at the knees to lift.
Deciding when they’re too sick for school:
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As a rule of thumb, a child should stay home if he has a fever higher than 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit OR
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Vomited more than once
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Diarrhea
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A very frequent cough
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Persistent pain (ear, stomach, etc.)
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A widespread rash
For those with “big kids” going off to school, make sure their health is covered:
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Know the plans benefits. Make sure you have read and, in fact, understand the entire contents of the plan brochure.
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What doctors are covered? Can students use their own doctors when at home?
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Does the plan have any authorization or referral requirements?
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How much does it cost? Prices and payment options vary greatly from plan to plan.
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What are the plan exclusions? Often student health plans are considered “accident and sickness plans” meaning they exclude or provide very limited routine and preventative care
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Are there any pre-existing condition limitations? Will your child’s ongoing condition be covered?
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What are the plan maximums? Some student plans are extremely basic and therefore the aggregate benefit maximum may be very low.
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If your child is no longer a student is there an option to extend coverage (i.e. after graduation?)
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What are the deadlines?
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Who is the health insurance carrier?
Check back again soon for Part II where we’ll pick up our “Best of” Back to School – Health and Safety Tips 2009 with suggestions for what to do once they head out the door. Until next time keep them healthy, keep them safe…and remember we’ll keep doing our best to help you do both, because one ouch is definitely too many
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Sending out thanks and recognition to some very smart folks for some really great advice:
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Prep for pre-school physicals: (School-age physicals: What to know before you go by Drs. Michelle Meeks and Tonja Austin, Aug 4, 2009)
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Consider a back-to-school health check list: (Kids Need Back-To-School Health Checks by Dr Clay Stallworth July 26, 2009)
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Conduct a backpack check: (Backpack Safety Tips - Childrens Healthcare of Atlanta by Dr David Marshall Aug 5, 2009)
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Deciding when they’re too sick for school: (Is Your Child Too Sick for School by Childrens Healthcare of Atlanta Aug 5, 2009)
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For those with “big kids” going off to school, make sure their health is covered: (10 things you should know when choosing a university sponsored health plan by Manchester Health Insurance Examiner Rachel Arnold July 29, 2009)







