Up and down, over and under, so the roller coaster goes. Are you worn out just thinking about it?
Life with an intense child is like a ride on a roller coaster, some moments are thrilling, others calm, still others fear-inducing. Intense kids feel so powerfully, they see more, hear more acutely and feel more deeply. Of course, they have to share all of it with you, ’cause life can be just so overwhelming....
Before setting a limit, offer empathy and recognition of their needs or wants. Saying, “I understand that you want to join Tommy in going to the park after dark and that you feel there is nothing to worry about.” Validating their feelings also models respect and the importance of valuing each other’s perspective. Rather than immediately devaluing their requests as immature or possibly dangerous,...
Most parents expect their children to respect them. What are you doing to model respect? Here are seven simple steps to living with respect in your relationships.
Be a good listener – Give your child your undivided attention when they are speaking to you.
Be fair – Consider your child’s viewpoint and experience before stating your opinion.
Be honest – Tell the truth. Be accountable when you...
The transition from toddler to child is a leap for both of you. As a parent during this time, you go from meeting all your toddler’s needs to helping your 3- to 8-year-old learn to be independent and responsible for herself. This is one of those profound developmental processes that no one really teaches parents how to navigate. But that’s why we’re here now, to help you and your child develop...
